Mix all sauce ingredients in small bowl. Set aside.
Heat 1 tablespoon sesame oil in large skillet over medium-high heat.
Add ground chicken or turkey. Break up with wooden spoon.
Cook 5 to 7 minutes until browned with no pink remaining.
Push meat to sides. Add garlic, ginger, and white parts of green onions to center.
Cook 30 seconds until fragrant. Stir together.
Add coleslaw mix and carrots.
Pour sauce over everything.
Stir together. Cook 3 to 4 minutes until cabbage is tender but crunchy.
Taste and adjust seasoning.
Sprinkle with green onion tops and sesame seeds.
Serve hot over rice or as is.